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Food/Health  /  April 15, 2022

Why I Don’t Wear Heels: How Heels Hurt Your Body

Do heels hurt your feet? Back in high school, I started wearing heels. In the 90s, thicker heels and wedges were popular as opposed to the stilettos of the past. As I grew older, the heels grew a little higher—though I don’t think I ever wore anything past three and half inches. I couldn’t stand the pressure on the balls of my feet. Everyone wore heels, heels are sexy, flats are lame and even, ugly. I worked in heels, loved my heels, loved shoes because shoes with heels are just so pretty and feminine and stylish.

I haven’t worn heels in nearly a decade. I’m 41, so I stopped wearing heels rather young in life. Usually women push wearing heels into much later in life and even wear them on special occasions when they are a lot older and their feet hurt. My mom is in her 70s and can probably even wear a little heel now, though I think the last time she did so was my wedding.

So why did I, a thirty something year old at the time, suddenly stop wearing heels?

I developed chronic planter fasciitis and couldn’t bare standing in flats, even running shoes, never mind heels. I dealt with this condition for a year, living in chronic pain and was honestly afraid I’d be living with chronic pain in my feet for the rest of my life.

What Heels Do to Your Feet

Now, while I no longer suffer from plantar fasciitis (thank God) I never went back to wearing heels. It just didn’t seem smart, and I was also struggling with occasional back pain that I just couldn’t (and still can’t) shake. And honestly, after being out of heels for so long, my feet really couldn’t take it. They were just too uncomfortable. And tight.

I’ve learned that high heels can lead to such problems as:

  • plantar fasciitis
  • pump bump (Haglund’s deformity)
  • arthritis
  • ankle sprains/injury
  • deformed toenails
  • stress fractures
  • change in gait/the way you walk
  • hammer toes
  • ingrown toenails
  • pain in other parts of your body such as knees, hips, back
  • bunions

Now, as someone who has experienced a lot of pain and who has sought a lot of different treatments over the past decade, none of this surprised me. I experienced a lot of these problems, specifically plantar fasciitis, knee pain, back pain, changes in the way I walk/stand.

Let’s talk about some of the above problems, what they are and why they develop.

heels hurt your feet photo of foot with bunion and X-ray of feet with bunions

Pump Bump–What??

Essentially, this is a growth of new bone over existing bone caused by wearing too tight shoes, such as high heels (pumps). It occurs on the heel of your foot or feet. It can also occur in people who wear flats (even running shoes) that are too tight. The tightness puts pressure on the soft tissue near the Achilles tendon and the bump because painful when you walk as the shoe rubs against it. Treatment does not sound fun–everything from some meds to exercises, shoe inserts, modified shoes, physio and orthotics to surgery and immobilization. From personal experience, this is all very costly, time consuming, and while it may help, sometimes it doesn’t, which is why even surgery might be needed. Not something I relish. And while you try out all these options that might not work, you will be in pain.

Heels Change the Way I Walk?

This one might surprise you, but the body is highly adaptable. Once you slip on those heels, you’re walking on the balls of your feet. This changes the position of your pelvis, the curve of your lower back is exaggerated and muscles and tendons in your legs shorten. Wearing heels too long and too often changes the way you stand and move and when you return to being flat again, your body can experience pain as its adjusted to the heels. But ultimately, this all can lead to chronic pain and injury including hamstring tears and plantar fasciitis. Ouch. This is the worst way, I think that heels hurt your feet and especially, your body.

heels hurt your feet photo go woman  wearing heels

Artritis

This one surprised me a little, but I soon understood how heels can contribute to arthritis. Arthritis is primarily an inflammation problem, but it’s also connected to cartilage between joints wearing down over time, which is why the elderly often suffer from this condition. However, wearing heels causes your body to stand and move in different ways, putting pressure on joints such as the knees and other parts of your feet which can contribute to that deterioration and ultimately, the inflammation that causes pain.

Do I Throw Away My Heels?

Well, I did. After living with plantar fasciitis with a year, going to physio, wearing orthotics, seeing a couple of different specialists who just shrugged their shoulders and said it would go away, crying when I came from home because I was in so much pain, taking days off of work because of the pain–of course I threw away my heels. It cost me so much. I hated the shoes I had to wear–chunky and wide, or worse, running shoes which I never in my life wore unless I was doing something like hiking or going to the gym. Throwing away my pretty heels hurt my soul. But it saved my feet, and I think, my body a lot of pain.

However, we all know heels are not going anywhere any time soon, even if high heels do hurt your feet–our feet. I think the best thing to do if you really love your heels is take breaks from them. Bring a pair of flats to work, wear shorter heels some days, look for heels that don’t have that extreme point but a more rounded toe, look for flats with good foot support. Stretch you feet. And if you are having a lot of pain, think seriously about tossing them heels. The pain isn’t worth it.

What do you think about heels? Share in the comments below.

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    22 Comments

    • Jaya Avendel says:
      April 15, 2022 at 4:26 pm

      I am terrible in heels, though I do find them compellingly stylish! While it is comfort for me every time, I enjoy wearing wedges and chunky heels when I do wear heels because both types of shoe offer my foot more support.

      Love that you share your story and reasons, as well as provide a closer look at several ways heels can negatively impact our bodies!

      Reply
      • Giulia says:
        April 15, 2022 at 6:28 pm

        I was surprised but not surprised if you know what I mean.

        Reply
    • Caroline says:
      April 15, 2022 at 4:45 pm

      From a young age, my sister and mum told me they wreck your feet so I’ve never really worn them. I stick to flats/ballet pumps x
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      • Giulia says:
        April 18, 2022 at 9:06 am

        Yeah, some of the pictures I saw were pretty shocking, so it’s good they warned you.

        Reply
    • Vanessa says:
      April 15, 2022 at 6:47 pm

      I would honestly like to wear heels but I can’t and I agree they do more harm than good. pretty doesn’t really cut it for me. each time i try to wear heels, i lack strength and I get really prone to twists. i gave up ten years ago maybe too! thanks for bringing attention to this topic!
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      • Giulia says:
        April 15, 2022 at 9:12 pm

        I hope this article helps others!

        Reply
    • Jenny in Neverland says:
      April 20, 2022 at 5:37 am

      I love heels but I rarely wear them because in general, I tend to find shoes very uncomfortable. It takes a lot for me to find a pair of shoes that don’t hurt me – I’ve always had problems with my feet! So I’ll wear heels on the odd occasion but I don’t like it. I think they LOOK gorgeous though x
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      • Giulia says:
        April 20, 2022 at 11:50 am

        Yes they do look lovely but good thing you don’t wear them much!

        Reply
    • Lisa | Mind and Body Intertwined says:
      May 2, 2022 at 9:55 am

      I never knew all thIs, but I never knew heels Are this baD… luckily i never wear them, since I kinda look like a dear thats just learning to walk…
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      • Giulia says:
        May 2, 2022 at 10:04 am

        I’m sure you don’t look like that but I agree it’s good you hardly wear them 🙂

        Reply
    • Molly | Transatlantic Notes says:
      May 2, 2022 at 10:19 am

      I haven’t worn heels in probably 20 years as they were always so uncomfortable and ruined my feet and back. I think they look lovely but completely unrealistic as actual footwear for so many of us!
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      • Giulia says:
        May 2, 2022 at 1:58 pm

        Very true! Though I find it also interesting that a lot of women claim these shoes are comfortable and that they have no issues with them. Very weird but these are claims I’ve heard!

        Reply
    • Cassie says:
      May 3, 2022 at 4:10 pm

      I’m sorry that you were in so much pain. I am tall as it is, but I still tried wearing heels in my early 20s. I called them 2-hour shoes because that’s all I could take. The only way to wear them was if I was just going some place where I was going to be sitting. It’s a shame that they are so sexy and feminine. I’ll still try them on for a quick glance, but no plans to wear any again.
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      • Giulia says:
        May 9, 2022 at 9:52 am

        Funny, I call them sit down shoes!

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    • AMAZING BABY says:
      May 18, 2022 at 12:31 pm

      I wore heels up until my mid 30’s because my legs looked fabulous but stopped when it became too painful. I would wear them to work and then swap them out for the comfy shoes under my desk. i gave many pairs away but still have my favorites that will never see the light of day, in my closet.
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      • Giulia says:
        May 18, 2022 at 1:11 pm

        It’s funny how hard it is to let go of old pairs of shoes. I do it too.

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    • Fransic verso says:
      May 18, 2022 at 1:30 pm

      My girlfriend just went out with heels and came back and now her feet hurt haha. It’s not really good for long use.
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      • Giulia says:
        May 19, 2022 at 8:58 am

        Yup, the heels hurt lol

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    • Mummy Conquering Anxiety says:
      May 18, 2022 at 4:55 pm

      I love this post because I can’t wear heels anymore, but due to how flat my feet are, I also need a little wedge. Supportive trainers are the best option for me!

      Reply
      • Giulia says:
        May 19, 2022 at 8:59 am

        I like to get shoes with soft cushioning but good arch support.

        Reply
    • Lucy says:
      June 6, 2022 at 4:38 pm

      This is a really interesting read, I don’t wear heels as often as I used to as they’re not comfortable to wear for long periods at times! However, I do love wearing them as it gives me a confidence boost! x

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      • Giulia says:
        June 6, 2022 at 5:17 pm

        They do make us feel prettier!

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