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Mental Health  /  February 11, 2022

The Dangers of Never DeCluttering, How to be More Mindful in the Home

This is the third instalment in my mental series about the dangers of never decluttering, and in this post I want to talk about how to be more mindful and minimal in your home. I believe that minimalism and mindfulness go hand and hand, and minimalism is something I want to embrace, and have for some time. I have made major improvements in my life and home towards being minimal. And after seeing what happens to a home that is never decluttered, like my grandmother’s, I want to be sure to continue to be mindful and minimal going forward. Especially since, it’s been shown that clutter can increase our cortisol (stress hormone) levels, and thus, affect our mental health.

In fact, during my pregnancy, when we we were waiting for the floors to be done, and there was stuff moved around and cluttering up areas, I became so overwhelmed by the stuff that I just stopped trying to pick up and put away because things did not have a home when they should have, and I didn’t know where to place them. I felt as though I was just shuffling things around, and it became confusing and frustrating and so I gave up. Likely, being pregnant made the situation harder for me, as I was tired and hormonal. But, it goes to show that clutter really affects our mental state. Since I never want to feel that way again, I really do need to embrace minimalism and mindfulness in my home more fully.

What is Minimalism?

I think many of us think of minimalism as living a very spartan life, with only things that serve a very functional purpose, in our lives. But, that is not what minimalism has to be, although it can be if you want that kind of lifestyle; rather minimalism is more about mindfulness. What minimalism is then, is eliminating the things that don’t really matter, and intentionally focusing on what does matter to you, and hanging on to those things. For instance, in my life, books really matter, so when we renovated we made sure to plan a space for my books as I really value and love my books.

People who practice minimalism, or who just want to be more mindful in their home and lifestyle, ask themselves three key questions:

  • Do I use it?
  • Do I love it?
  • Do I need it?

Key to becoming more minimalist is starting small. You have to crawl before you walk after all. It is hard to declutter and let go of items, especially sentimental items, so really be intentional about this instead of just going on a tossing rampage. If you aren’t sure, set it aside to decide later. Decluttering is actually mentally draining because you are constantly making a decision, so be gentle with yourself and yourself. Take breaks too!

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Be sure to remember that a minimalist’s home looks different for every minimalist. What is essential for you, might not be essential for others. Keep items that have meaning and purpose.

Minimalism also includes living a lifestyle that is focused on clarity and intentionality in that, you include in your life only those things that really matter and promote the things we most value while removing the things that distract us. Since minimalism looks so different for everyone, let’s explore another way to being more mindful in the home.

Feng Shi

Feng shi is the practice and philosophy of arranging pieces in your home to help balance the natural world. The goal is to harness and balance peace between you and your environment. Since Feng shi an ancient practice that focuses on balancing the energies of any given space to encourage and promote the health of those living in that space. Since both people and things have energy, items need to be arranged in a way so as to allow energy (chi) to flow, it seems natural to me that you would want this space to free of clutter which could impede the efforts of arranging and placing items to balance and create peace in the home. I have used some of these principles in my own home and found the results restful and functional.

Since the practice of feng shi is both ancient and complex, I can’t really outline it fully and properly, as I’m not an expert. However, I have discovered that implementing some of these practices can have great mental health benefits as the practice focuses on how to arrange items and it has been shown that home design can have a restful and beneficial affect on our mood and even our mental health.

For instance, one of the tenants of fun shi is to clear pathways for feng shi. That is, don’t have clutter or large items in areas where the energy can be blocked. Ever had too much stuff piled near your front door? Did you trip or find it a pain to side step these items? This is one area, that according to fung shi, should be clear of clutter or large furniture pieces, and it seems logical when you think that the front door is an area we need to be clear to easily exit and enter, and to welcome guests. See how decluttering is at play here to some degree? Fengi shi is a great way to practice mindfulness and organization in our homes.

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Final Thoughts

Being mindful in our homes isn’t something either minimalism or Feng shi can prop up without effort and intentionality on your part. You have to commit to the idea of being more intentional in what you keep, what you buy and how you manage and store your belongings. Therefore, it’s really you to you to be mindful no matter what kind of lifestyle practice you embrace. I wish you the best of luck in your efforts to be embrace minimalism and mindfulness!

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    • Corinne | Ma qualité de vie says:
      February 11, 2022 at 8:53 am

      I do believe that a cluttered home affects mental health. I feel good when my space is clear and airy. When I pile things up, I feel an urgent need to clean up a few days later because I feel invaded. I have never tried Feng Shi but I have heard about it many times. I will probably try it one of these days. Thanks for sharing.
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      • Giulia says:
        February 11, 2022 at 9:06 am

        Yes, clutter certainly has an affect as we all feel better when things are put in their place and tidy.

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    • Sumedha says:
      February 12, 2022 at 11:05 am

      I haven’t heard of the Feng Shi concept before but it sounds so sensible. i want to ease into minimalism and that is definitely something i should consider everyday from now on. thanks for sharing a helpful post!
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      • Giulia says:
        February 12, 2022 at 9:43 pm

        My pleasure!

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        • Rayo says:
          February 13, 2022 at 1:52 am

          I love this post. I am a strong believer that clutters get in the way of energy. Plus i have not heard of Feng shi before. Thanks for sharing
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          • Giulia says:
            February 14, 2022 at 9:13 am

            I think you will love Feng shi then!

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    • Allie Macking says:
      February 15, 2022 at 8:55 pm

      Oh I am all about decluttering. I am the opposite of a hoarder i am a tosser! great advice here!

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      • Giulia says:
        February 15, 2022 at 8:56 pm

        Glad you enjoyed the post 😃

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    • SARAH CLARKE says:
      February 16, 2022 at 5:57 pm

      i really needed to read this today, i get so stressed out by the clutter in my household and feel like i am the only one that ever tackles the task, which increases my frustrations even more. I appreciate the suggestion to start small. Thank you.

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      • Giulia says:
        February 16, 2022 at 9:46 pm

        I often feel like it’s all on my me too! Starting small makes it less frustrating so go for it 😀

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    • Molly | Transatlantic Notes says:
      May 9, 2022 at 10:05 am

      This is perfect; being more intentional with our lifestyle choices, etc. is something we would all benefit from. I am definitely putting this into action as I move forward. Thanks for this!
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      • Giulia says:
        May 9, 2022 at 10:27 am

        So glad it was helpful!

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    • JamiEaDstOrieS says:
      May 9, 2022 at 6:03 pm

      Interesting points. MinImalism is very cool.

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      • Giulia says:
        May 9, 2022 at 7:31 pm

        Yes, it has a profound effect on our mental health.

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    • Casey Anne says:
      May 9, 2022 at 6:09 pm

      I’ve never hear dof Feng shi before but it sounds really interesting! I’ve always envied those who make minimalism look effortless. It’s impressive how nice and relaxing a home with minimal items feels and looks. I still have a long way to go as I’m weirdly attached to most of my stuff…but hopefully one day i’ll get there!
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      • Giulia says:
        May 9, 2022 at 7:31 pm

        It’s definitely hard, but baby steps.

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    • Jade MumLifeAndMe says:
      May 10, 2022 at 4:55 pm

      Great post. I can relate to so much of this. I struggle to organise clutter AT times and find, like you diD, will sHuffle things Around that don’t have a hoMe. I feel so mich better when the house is niCe and tidY, but mess overwhelms me at times. MUst be more mindful about it – tidy home, TIdy mind. Thanks for sharing.
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      • Giulia says:
        May 13, 2022 at 10:25 am

        Glad I could encourage you in your tidying journey!

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