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Self Care  /  March 8, 2021

Fabulous Self Care Tips for Days that Suck

We all experience days that just suck, and self care for days that suck is what is most needed. Not a drink, or a bag of chips, but self care. I have had these days in January and February. Where I just feel like my life is a total joke. That I can’t do anything well enough. And those days suck. And honestly, I’m tired of having those days! Because they suck and I don’t want to waste any more days feeling sorry for myself when I’ve really nothing to be down about. So I am going to start taking part of those days to practice some very specific self care.

Practicing Mindfulness

This is hard for a lot of us, me included. It’s hard to be mindful because your mind and emotions become tangled up and wind you up into over drive. It’s important on a day when you’re just not feeling yourself, when you’re beating yourself up and wondering why you even bother getting out of bed in the morning, to take a deep breath and be mindful. Focus on something that was good today. Was it your morning coffee? A text from a friend or partner? A cuddle session with a beloved pet. Spend some time remembering that and expressing gratitude. Then maybe dive into some of my other tips. And FYI, this is a practice I am going to begin on my rough days that suck.

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Take a Break and Do Something You Love on Days that Suck

Honestly, sometimes we push ourselves too hard. We get hyper focused on our tasks, or end goals, and really we should be enjoying the moment. Focusing on the now. So when your day starts to suck because you’re thinking about that end goal (maybe losing 25 pounds, or gaining 200,00 subscribers, or making enough at your at home job to quit your day job) just remember that the goals you should be focused on are the ones you can achieve now. Like writing that blog post. And then, take a break and do something you love. Read for an hour. Walk your dog. Paint, draw, bake. Whatever it is that will draw your attention away from the sucky thoughts and feelings and provide some calm and clarity.

Reward Yourself

You might have only done a couple of things today that you wanted to, and think that this is just another one of those days that suck. But step back and remind yourself that even if you only got two of five tasks accomplished, that you did get some of those goals checked off your list. Reward yourself–with a mental pat on the back, a small piece of chocolate, or by taking five minutes to listen to your favourite song with the volume way too loud. Whatever makes you feel good!

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Do Something Nice for Yourself

It’s one of those days that suck right? So do something nice for yourself instead of moping around. Maybe give yourself a manicure or pedicure, or a facial. A bubble bath is a nice way to treat yourself too. Or, do something crafty like knit, colour or doodle in your bullet journal. You could even buy yourself flowers, or head over to the bookstore or library and get something new to read. Try a new make up look. Sometimes we just need to be kind to ourselves. I have to start doing this a little more because pushing through isn’t helpful or productive.

Helping Others to Turn Around Days that Suck

So this is not your day, but that doesn’t mean you can’t make someone’s else day. Offer to help out someone–it could be a friend, a family member, a neighbour. You could be a shoulder to cry on, or maybe help with some chores or errands that individual can’t do. Perhaps sign up to help out a local animal recuse. Acts of kindness and “good works” to use a Christian phrase really help us come out of ourselves and feel better about ourselves because we are connecting with others. We realize their value and importance, and recognize the same within ourselves.

And remember, Tomorrow is Another Day

If you’ve ever watched or read Gone with the Wind, you’ll know that this is Scarlett O’Hara’s tag line when things go bad. When the chips are down, Scarlett reminds herself that tomorrow is another day, another day to turn things around, a fresh new day to realize those goals and ambitions and dreams. And it’s true. You can’t accomplish everything in one day. Focus on the goals you accomplished today. Or can accomplish today. Tomorrow is another day to reach another small goal. All these small goals will add up to a big victory goal one day. It did for Scarlett–and your story doesn’t have to go as south as hers does.

What are some things do you do when your day isn’t going well? Share in the comments below.

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    16 Comments

    • Lisa says:
      March 8, 2021 at 10:32 am

      This is lovely, I really like the acts of kindness suggestion. I don’t think it’s possible to underestimate how good it feels when you do something nice for someone else. That isn’t meant to sound smug, it’s just that warm fuzzy feeling lifts me even if I’m having a bad day 🙂
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      • Giulia says:
        March 8, 2021 at 5:48 pm

        Oh yes, the warm fuzzy feeling is very nice and nothing evokes it like a true act of kindness.

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    • Natasha Evans says:
      March 8, 2021 at 10:43 am

      Yes I love this post! I definitely think taking a break and doing something you love on those days where you just don’t feel yourself makes such a difference. Thanks for sharing this!

      Tash – A Girl with a View

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      • Giulia says:
        March 8, 2021 at 5:47 pm

        So glad you enjoyed the post 🙂 Thanks for visiting the blog.

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    • Jaya Avendel says:
      March 8, 2021 at 8:59 pm

      Your mention of Gone with the Wind is very powerful here. While I cannot say I found everything about Scarlett tasteful, she sure knew how to move on and live in the present!
      Doing something you love on the bad days is also a great way to add some happiness to it.
      Thanks for sharing!
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      • Giulia says:
        March 8, 2021 at 9:16 pm

        Scarlett isn’t always likeable but she’s very relatable. And yes, she knew how to deal with the now!

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    • Tamra Cater says:
      March 9, 2021 at 2:33 am

      I love these tips. One thing I like to do when I have had a bad day is workout or take a walk. I definitely need to take more of your tips though and take better care of myself.
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      • Giulia says:
        March 9, 2021 at 5:52 pm

        Walks are great, being out in nature really helps. But yes, try some of these ideas for sure. It’s so important to take care of yourself.

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    • Sophie Harriet says:
      March 10, 2021 at 7:04 pm

      This is such good advice! We all have bad days from time to time and I try to remind myself that it will pass and better days will come. I definitely agree that self-care is needed on these days!

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      • Giulia says:
        March 10, 2021 at 7:49 pm

        Yes, we need to cut ourselves some slack on those days!

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    • Amanda says:
      March 11, 2021 at 2:05 am

      Such a wonderfuL post! When i aM having a bad day i will treat Myself With my favorite coffee or food! I love the practice mindfulness too! WonderfuL post

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      • Giulia says:
        March 11, 2021 at 3:50 pm

        Thanks very much! So glad you found it helpful, that always makes my day.

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    • Cristina Rosano says:
      March 18, 2021 at 5:11 pm

      Yes to all of these ideas! doing something you love on days when you feel down and helping others are my top choice! Thank you for sharing x
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      • Giulia says:
        March 18, 2021 at 5:16 pm

        Olive, so glad you found this post helpful! Thanks for dropping by 😀

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    • Roze says:
      May 3, 2022 at 8:40 am

      Great post with lots of great ideas! Doing something nice for someone else is one of my favourites and pretty much guaranteed to make me feel better. Nice to see a fellow Canadian blogger on here too. Keep up the good works.

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      • Giulia says:
        May 3, 2022 at 9:06 am

        Thank you so much! Can’t wait to check out your blog 😀

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